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		<title>FW: I&#8217;m Tired and AMEN!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 06:01:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m 63. Except for one semester in college when jobs were scarce and a six-month period when I was between jobs, but job-hunting every day, I&#8217;ve worked, hard, since I was 18. Despite some health challenges, I still put in 50-hour weeks, and haven&#8217;t called in sick in seven or eight years. I make a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>I&#8217;m 63.</strong> Except for one semester in college when jobs were scarce and a six-month period when I was between jobs, but job-hunting every day, I&#8217;ve worked, hard, since I was 18. Despite some health challenges, I still put in 50-hour weeks, and haven&#8217;t called in sick in seven or eight years. I make a good salary, but I didn&#8217;t inherit my job or my income, and I worked to get where I am. Given the economy, there&#8217;s no retirement in sight, and I&#8217;m tired. Very tired.<br />
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I&#8217;m tired </strong>of being told that I have to &#8220;spread the wealth&#8221; to people who don&#8217;t have my work ethic. I&#8217;m tired of being told the government will take the money I earned, by force if necessary, and give it to people too lazy to earn it.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>I&#8217;m tired</strong> of being told that I have to pay more taxes to &#8220;keep people in their homes.&#8221;  Sure, if they lost their jobs or got sick, I&#8217;m willing to help. But if they bought McMansions at three times the price of our paid-off, $250,000 condo, on one-third of my salary, then let the left-wing Congress-critters who passed Fannie and Freddie and the Community Reinvestment A ct that created the bubble help them with their own money.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>I&#8217;m tired</strong> of being told how bad America is by left-wing millionaires like Michael Moore, George Soros and Hollywood Entertainers who live in luxury because of the opportunities America offers. In thirty years, if they get their way, the  United States  will have the economy of  Zimbabwe , the freedom of the press of  China , the crime and violence of  Mexico , the tolerance for Christian people of  Iran , and the freedom of speech of  Venezuela .</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>I&#8217;m tired</strong> of being told that Islam is a &#8220;Religion of Peace,&#8221; when every day I can read dozens of stories of Muslim men killing their sisters, wives and daughters for their family &#8220;honor&#8221;; of Muslims rioting over some slight offense; of Muslims murdering Christian and Jews because they aren&#8217;t &#8220;believers&#8221;; of Muslims burning schools for girls; of Muslims stoning teenage rape victims to death for &#8220;adultery&#8221;; of Muslims mutilating the genitals of little girls; all in the name of Allah, because the Qur&#8217;an and Shari&#8217;a law tells them to.<br />
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I&#8217;m tired</strong> of being told that &#8220;race doesn&#8217;t matter&#8221; in the post-racial world of Obama, when it&#8217;s all that matters in affirmative action jobs, lower college admission and graduation standards for minorities (harming them the most), government contract set-asides, tolerance for the ghetto culture of violence and fatherless children that hurts minorities more than anyone, and in the appointment of U.S. Senators from Illinois.<br />
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I think it&#8217;s very cool</strong> that we have a black president and that a black child is doing her homework at the desk where Lincoln wrote the Emancipation Proclamation. I just wish the black president was Condi Rice, or someone who believes more in freedom and the individual and less arrogantly of an all-knowing government.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>I&#8217;m tired</strong> of a news media that thinks Bush&#8217;s fundraising and inaugural expenses were obscene, but that think Obama&#8217;s, at triple the cost, were wonderful; that thinks Bush exercising daily was a waste of presidential time, but Obama exercising is a great example for the public to control weight and stress; that picked over every line of Bush&#8217;s military records, but never demanded that Kerry release his; that slammed Palin, with two years as governor, for being too inexperienced for VP, but touted Obama with three years as senator as potentially the best president ever. Wonder why people are dropping their subscriptions or switching to Fox News?  Get a clue. I didn&#8217;t vote for Bush in 2000, but the media and Kerry drove me to his camp in 2004.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>I&#8217;m tired</strong> of being told that out of  &#8220;tolerance for other cultures&#8221; we must let Saudi Arabia use our oil money to fund mosques and mandrassa Islamic schools to preach hate in America, while no American group is allowed to fund a church, synagogue or religious school in Saudi Arabia to teach love and tolerance.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>I&#8217;m tired </strong>of being told I must lower my living standard to fight global warming, which no one is allowed to debate. My wife and I live in a two-bedroom apartment and carpool together five miles to our jobs. We also own a three-bedroom condo where our daughter and granddaughter live. Our carbon footprint is about 5% of Al Gore&#8217;s, and if you&#8217;re greener than Gore, you&#8217;re green enough.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>I&#8217;m tired</strong> of being told that drug addicts have a disease, and I must help support and treat them, and pay for the damage they do. Did a giant germ rush out of a dark alley, grab them, and stuff white powder up their noses while they tried to fight it off? I don&#8217;t think Gay people choose to be Gay, but I damn sure think druggies chose to take drugs. And I&#8217;m tired of harassment from cool people treating me like a freak when I tell them I never tried marijuana.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>I&#8217;m tired</strong> of illegal aliens being called &#8220;undocumented workers,&#8221; especially the ones who aren&#8217;t working, but are living on welfare or crime. What&#8217;s next?  Calling drug dealers, &#8220;Undocumented Pharmacists&#8221;?  And, no, I’m not against Hispanics. Most of them are Catholic, and it&#8217;s been a few hundred years since Catholics wanted to kill me for my religion.  I&#8217;m willing to fast track for citizenship any Hispanic person, who can speak English, doesn&#8217;t have a criminal record and who is self-supporting without family on welfare, or who serves honorably for three years in our military&#8230;. Those are the citizens we need.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>I&#8217;m tired</strong> of latte liberals and journalists, who would never wear the uniform of the Republic themselves, or let their entitlement-handicapped kids near a recruiting station, trashing our military. They and their kids can sit at home, never having to make split-second decisions under life and death circumstances, and bad mouth better people than themselves. Do bad things happen in war?  You bet. Do our troops sometimes misbehave?  Sure. Does this compare with the atrocities that were the policy of our enemies for the last fifty years and still are?  Not even close.  So here&#8217;s the deal. I&#8217;ll let myself be subjected to all the humiliation and abuse that was heaped on terrorists at Abu Ghraib or Gitmo, and the critics can let themselves be subject to captivity by the Muslims, who tortured and beheaded Daniel Pearl in Pakistan, or the Muslims who tortured and murdered Marine Lt. Col. William Higgins in Lebanon, or the Muslims who ran the blood-spattered A l Qaeda torture rooms our troops found in Iraq, or the Muslims who cut off the heads of schoolgirls in Indonesia, because the girls were Christian. Then we&#8217;ll compare notes. British and American soldiers are the only troops in history that civilians came to for help and handouts, instead of hiding from in fear.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>I&#8217;m tired</strong> of people telling me that their party has a corner on virtue and the other party has a corner on corruption. Read the papers; bums are bipartisan. And I&#8217;m tired of people telling me we need bipartisanship. I live in   Illinois, where the &#8220;Illinois Combine&#8221; of Democrats has worked to loot the public for years. Not to mention the tax cheats in Obama&#8217;s cabinet.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>I&#8217;m tired</strong> of hearing wealthy athletes, entertainers and politicians of both parties talking about innocent mistakes, stupid mistakes or youthful mistakes, when we all know they think their only mistake was getting caught. I&#8217;m tired of people with a sense of entitlement, rich or poor.<br />
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Speaking of poor, I&#8217;m tired</strong> of hearing people with air-conditioned homes, color TVs and two cars called poor. The majority of Americans didn&#8217;t have that in 1970, but we didn&#8217;t know we were &#8220;poor.&#8221; The poverty pimps have to keep changing the definition of poor to keep the dollars flowing.<br />
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I&#8217;m real tired </strong>of people who don&#8217;t take responsibility for their lives and actions. I&#8217;m tired of hearing them blame the government, or discrimination or big-whatever for their problems.<br />
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Yes, I&#8217;m damn tired.</strong> But I&#8217;m also glad to be 63. Because, mostly, I&#8217;m not going to have to see the world these people are making. I&#8217;m just sorry for my granddaughter.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: large;">Robert A. Hal l is a Marine Vietnam veteran who served five terms in the Massachusetts State  Senate.</span></p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 May 2010 06:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[1. HOW DO YOU DECIDE WHO TO MARRY? &#8220;You got to find somebody who likes the same stuff. Like, if you like sports, she should like it that you like sports, and she should keep the chips and dip coming.&#8221; &#8212;Alan, age 10 &#8220;No person really decides before they grow up who they&#8217;re going to [...]]]></description>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;">1. HOW DO YOU DECIDE WHO TO MARRY? </span></strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><br />
&#8220;You got to find somebody who likes the same stuff. Like, if you like sports, she should like it that you like sports, and she should keep the chips and  dip coming.&#8221;<br />
&#8212;Alan, age 10 </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">&#8220;No person really decides before they grow up who they&#8217;re going to marry. God decides it all way before, and you get to find out later who you&#8217;re stuck with.&#8221;<br />
&#8212;Kristen, age 10</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;">2.  WHAT IS THE RIGHT AGE TO GET MARRIED? </span></strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><br />
&#8220;Twenty-three is the best age because you know the person FOREVER by then.&#8221;<br />
&#8212;Camille, age 10</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;">3.  HOW CAN A STRANGER TELL IF TWO PEOPLE ARE MARRIED? </span></strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><br />
&#8220;You might have to guess, based on whether they seem to be yelling at the same kids.&#8221;<br />
&#8212;Derrick, age 8</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;">4.  WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR MOM AND DAD HAVE IN COMMON? </span></strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><br />
&#8220;Both don&#8217;t want any more kids.&#8221;<br />
&#8212;Lori, age 8</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;">5. WHAT DO MOST PEOPLE DO ON A DATE?</span></strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><br />
&#8220;Dates are for having fun, and people should use them to get to know each other. Even boys have something to say if you listen long enough.&#8221;<br />
&#8212;Lynnette, age 8 </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">&#8220;On the first date, they just tell each other lies and that usually gets them interested enough to go for a second date.&#8221;<br />
&#8212;Martin, age 10</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;">6.  WHEN IS IT OKAY TO KISS SOMEONE?</span></strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><br />
&#8220;When they&#8217;re rich.&#8221;<br />
&#8212;Pam, age 7 </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">&#8220;The law says you have to be eighteen, so I wouldn&#8217;t want to mess with that.&#8221;<br />
&#8212;Curt, age 7 </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">&#8220;The rule goes like this: If you kiss someone, then you should marry them and have kids with them. It&#8217;s the right thing to do.&#8221;<br />
&#8212;Howard, age 8 </span></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;">7. IS IT BETTER TO BE SINGLE OR MARRIED? </span></strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><br />
&#8220;It&#8217;s better for girls to be single but not for boys. Boys need someone to clean up after them.&#8221;<br />
&#8212;Anita, age 9 </span></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;">8. HOW WOULD THE WORLD BE DIFFERENT IF PEOPLE DIDN&#8217;T GET MARRIED? </span></strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><br />
&#8220;There sure would be a lot of kids to explain, wouldn&#8217;t there?&#8221;<br />
&#8212;Kelvin, age 8</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: large;">And the #1 Favorite is &#8230;&#8230;</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;">9. HOW WOULD YOU MAKE A MARRIAGE WORK? </span></strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><br />
&#8220;Tell your wife that she looks pretty, even if she looks like a dump truck .&#8221;<br />
&#8212;Ricky, age 10 </span></p>
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		<title>FW: Don&#8217;t Work. Avoid Telling the Truth. Be Hated. Love Someone.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 06:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Written by Adrian Tan, author of The Teenage Textbook (1988), was the guest-of-honor at a recent Nanyang Technological University (Singapore) convocation ceremony. This was his speech to the graduating class of 2008. &#8212;&#8211; I must say thank you to the faculty and staff of the Wee Kim Wee School of Communication and Information for inviting [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Written by Adrian Tan, author of The Teenage Textbook (1988), was the guest-of-honor at a recent Nanyang Technological University (Singapore) convocation ceremony. This was his speech to the graduating class of 2008.<br />
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;">I must say thank you to the faculty and staff of the Wee Kim Wee School of Communication and Information for inviting me to give your convocation address. It’s a wonderful honour and a privilege for me to speak here for ten minutes without fear of contradiction, defamation or retaliation. I say this as a Singaporean and more so as a husband.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">My wife is a wonderful person and perfect in every way except one. She is the editor of a magazine. She corrects people for a living. She has honed her expert skills over a quarter of a century, mostly by practicing at home during conversations between her and me.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">On the other hand, I am a litigator. Essentially, I spend my day telling people how wrong they are. I make my living being disagreeable.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Nevertheless, there is perfect harmony in our matrimonial home. That is because when an editor and a litigator have an argument, the one who triumphs is always the wife.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">And so I want to start by giving one piece of advice to the men: when you’ve already won her heart, you don’t need to win every argument.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Marriage is considered one milestone of life. Some of you may already be married. Some of you may never be married. Some of you will be married. Some of you will enjoy the experience so much, you will be married many, many times. Good for you.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">The next big milestone in your life is today: your graduation. The end of education. You’re done learning.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">You’ve probably been told the big lie that “Learning is a lifelong process” and that therefore you will continue studying and taking masters’ degrees and doctorates and professorships and so on. You know the sort of people who tell you that? Teachers. Don’t you think there is some measure of conflict of interest? They are in the business of learning, after all. Where would they be without you? They need you to be repeat customers.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">The good news is that they’re wrong.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">The bad news is that you don’t need further education because your entire life is over. It is gone. That may come as a shock to some of you. You’re in your teens or early twenties. People may tell you that you will live to be 70, 80, 90 years old. That is your life expectancy.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">I love that term: life expectancy. We all understand the term to mean the average life span of a group of people. But I’m here to talk about a bigger idea, which is what you expect from your life.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">You may be very happy to know that Singapore is currently ranked as the country with the third highest life expectancy. We are behind Andorra and Japan, and tied with San Marino. It seems quite clear why people in those countries, and ours, live so long. We share one thing in common: our football teams are all hopeless. There’s very little danger of any of our citizens having their pulses raised by watching us play in the World Cup. Spectators are more likely to be lulled into a gentle and restful nap.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Singaporeans have a life expectancy of 81.8 years. Singapore men live to an average of 79.21 years, while Singapore women live more than five years longer, probably to take into account the additional time they need to spend in the bathroom.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">So here you are, in your twenties, thinking that you’ll have another 40 years to go. Four decades in which to live long and prosper.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Bad news. Read the papers. There are people dropping dead when they’re 50, 40, 30 years old. Or quite possibly just after finishing their convocation. They would be very disappointed that they didn’t meet their life expectancy.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">I’m here to tell you this. Forget about your life expectancy.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">After all, it’s calculated based on an average. And you never, ever want to expect being average.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Revisit those expectations. You might be looking forward to working, falling in love, marrying, raising a family. You are told that, as graduates, you should expect to find a job paying so much, where your hours are so much, where your responsibilities are so much.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">That is what is expected of you. And if you live up to it, it will be an awful waste.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">If you expect that, you will be limiting yourself. You will be living your life according to boundaries set by average people. I have nothing against average people. But no one should aspire to be them. And you don’t need years of education by the best minds in Singapore to prepare you to be average.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">What you should prepare for is mess. Life’s a mess. You are not entitled to expect anything from it. Life is not fair. Everything does not balance out in the end. Life happens, and you have no control over it. Good and bad things happen to you day by day, hour by hour, moment by moment. Your degree is a poor armour against fate.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Don’t expect anything. Erase all life expectancies. Just live. Your life is over as of today. At this point in time, you have grown as tall as you will ever be, you are physically the fittest you will ever be in your entire life and you are probably looking the best that you will ever look. This is as good as it gets. It is all downhill from here. Or up. No one knows.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">What does this mean for you? It is good that your life is over.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Since your life is over, you are free. Let me tell you the many wonderful things that you can do when you are free.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">The most important is this: do not work.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Work is anything that you are compelled to do. By its very nature, it is undesirable.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Work kills. The Japanese have a term “Karoshi”, which means death from overwork. That’s the most dramatic form of how work can kill. But it can also kill you in more subtle ways. If you work, then day by day, bit by bit, your soul is chipped away, disintegrating until there’s nothing left. A rock has been ground into sand and dust.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">There’s a common misconception that work is necessary. You will meet people working at miserable jobs. They tell you they are “making a living”. No, they’re not. They’re dying, frittering away their fast-extinguishing lives doing things which are, at best, meaningless and, at worst, harmful.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">People will tell you that work ennobles you, that work lends you a certain dignity. Work makes you free. The slogan “Arbeit macht frei” [work makes you free] was placed at the entrances to a number of Nazi concentration camps. Utter nonsense.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Do not waste the vast majority of your life doing something you hate so that you can spend the small remainder sliver of your life in modest comfort. You may never reach that end anyway.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Resist the temptation to get a job. Instead, play. Find something you enjoy doing. Do it. Over and over again. You will become good at it for two reasons: you like it, and you do it often. Soon, that will have value in itself.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">I like arguing, and I love language. So, I became a litigator. I enjoy it and I would do it for free. If I didn’t do that, I would’ve been in some other type of work that still involved writing fiction – probably a sports journalist.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">So what should you do? You will find your own niche. I don’t imagine you will need to look very hard. By this time in your life, you will have a very good idea of what you will want to do. In fact, I’ll go further and say the ideal situation would be that you will not be able to stop yourself pursuing your passions. By this time you should know what your obsessions are. If you enjoy showing off your knowledge and feeling superior, you might become a teacher.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Find that pursuit that will energise you, consume you, become an obsession. Each day, you must rise with a restless enthusiasm. If you don’t, you are working.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Most of you will end up in activities which involve communication. To those of you I have a second message: be wary of the truth. I’m not asking you to speak it, or write it, for there are times when it is dangerous or impossible to do those things. The truth has a great capacity to offend and injure, and you will find that the closer you are to someone, the more care you must take to disguise or even conceal the truth. Often, there is great virtue in being evasive, or equivocating. There is also great skill. Any child can blurt out the truth, without thought to the consequences. It takes great maturity to appreciate the value of silence.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">In order to be wary of the truth, you must first know it. That requires great frankness to yourself. Never fool the person in the mirror.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">I have told you that your life is over, that you should not work, and that you should avoid telling the truth. I now say this to you: be hated.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">It’s not as easy as it sounds. Do you know anyone who hates you? Yet every great figure who has contributed to the human race has been hated, not just by one person, but often by a great many. That hatred is so strong it has caused those great figures to be shunned, abused, murdered and in one famous instance, nailed to a cross.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">One does not have to be evil to be hated. In fact, it’s often the case that one is hated precisely because one is trying to do right by one’s own convictions. It is far too easy to be liked, one merely has to be accommodating and hold no strong convictions. Then one will gravitate towards the centre and settle into the average. That cannot be your role. There are a great many bad people in the world, and if you are not offending them, you must be bad yourself. Popularity is a sure sign that you are doing something wrong.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">The other side of the coin is this: fall in love.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">I didn’t say “be loved”. That requires too much compromise. If one changes one’s looks, personality and values, one can be loved by anyone.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Rather, I exhort you to love another human being. It may seem odd for me to tell you this. You may expect it to happen naturally, without deliberation. That is false. Modern society is anti-love. We’ve taken a microscope to everyone to bring out their flaws and shortcomings. It far easier to find a reason not to love someone, than otherwise. Rejection requires only one reason. Love requires complete acceptance. It is hard work – the only kind of work that I find palatable.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Loving someone has great benefits. There is admiration, learning, attraction and something which, for the want of a better word, we call happiness. In loving someone, we become inspired to better ourselves in every way. We learn the truth worthlessness of material things. We celebrate being human. Loving is good for the soul.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Loving someone is therefore very important, and it is also important to choose the right person. Despite popular culture, love doesn’t happen by chance, at first sight, across a crowded dance floor. It grows slowly, sinking roots first before branching and blossoming. It is not a silly weed, but a mighty tree that weathers every storm.<br />
You will find, that when you have someone to love, that the face is less important than the brain, and the body is less important than the heart.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">You will also find that it is no great tragedy if your love is not reciprocated. You are not doing it to be loved back. Its value is to inspire you.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Finally, you will find that there is no half-measure when it comes to loving someone. You either don’t, or you do with every cell in your body, completely and utterly, without reservation or apology. It consumes you, and you are reborn, all the better for it.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Don’t work. Avoid telling the truth. Be hated. Love someone.</span></p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 06:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Submitted by: Mareesa R. Andy Rooney says: I don&#8217;t believe in Santa Claus, but I&#8217;m not going to sue somebody for singing a Ho-Ho-Ho song in December. I don&#8217;t agree with Darwin , but I didn&#8217;t go out and hire a lawyer when my high school teacher taught his Theory of Evolution. Life, liberty or [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Andy Rooney says:</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">I don&#8217;t believe in Santa Claus, but I&#8217;m not going to sue somebody for singing a Ho-Ho-Ho song in December. I don&#8217;t agree with Darwin , but I didn&#8217;t go out and hire a lawyer when my high school teacher taught his Theory of Evolution.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Life, liberty or your pursuit of happiness will not be endangered because someone says a 30-second prayer before a football game. So what&#8217;s the big deal? It&#8217;s not like somebody is up there reading the entire Book of Acts. They&#8217;re just talking to a God they believe in and asking him to grant safety to the players on the field and the fans going home from the game.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">But it&#8217;s a Christian prayer, some will argue.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Yes, and this is the United States of America , a country founded on Christian principles. According to our very own phone book, Christian churches outnumber all others better than 200-to-1. So what would you expect &#8212; somebody chanting Hare Krishna?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">If I went to a football game in Jerusalem , I would expect to hear a Jewish prayer.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">If I went to a soccer game in Baghdad , I would expect to hear a Muslim prayer.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">If I went to a ping pong match in China , I would expect to hear someone pray to Buddha.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">And I wouldn&#8217;t be offended. It wouldn&#8217;t bother me one bit.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">When in Rome&#8230;..</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">But what about the atheists? Is another argument.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">What about them? Nobody is asking them to be baptized. We&#8217;re not going to pass the collection plate. Just humor us for 30 seconds. If that&#8217;s asking too much, bring a Walkman or a pair of ear plugs. Go to the bathroom. Visit the concession stand. Call your lawyer!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Unfortunately, one or two will make that call. One or two will tell thousands what they can and cannot do. I don&#8217;t think a short prayer at a football game is going to shake the world&#8217;s foundations.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Christians are just sick and tired of turning the other cheek while our courts strip us of all our rights. Our parents and grandparents taught us to pray before eating, to pray before we go to sleep.Our Bible tells us to pray without ceasing. Now a handful of people and their lawyers are telling us to cease praying.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">God, help us. And if  that last sentence offends you, well, just sue me.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">The silent majority has been silent too long. It&#8217;s time we tell that one or two who scream loud enough to be heard that the vast majority doesn&#8217;t care what they want. It is time that the majority rules! It&#8217;s time we tell them, &#8220;You don&#8217;t have to pray; you don&#8217;t have to say the Pledge of Allegiance; you don&#8217;t have to believe in God or attend services that honor Him. That is your right, and we will honor your right; but by golly, you are no longer going to take our rights away. We are fighting back, and we WILL WIN!&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">God bless us one and all&#8230;Especially those who denounce Him, God  bless America , despite all her faults. She is still the greatest nation of all. God bless our service men who are fighting to protect our right to pray and worship God.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Let&#8217;s make 2010 the year the silent majority is heard and we put God back as the foundation of our families and institutions. And our military forces come home from all the wars.</span></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jan 2010 06:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 06:01:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Remember Lee Iacocca, the man who rescued Chrysler Corporation from its death throes?  He&#8217;s now 82 years old and has a new book, &#8216;Where Have All The Leaders  Gone?&#8217;. Lee Iacocca Says:   &#8216;Am I the only guy in this country who&#8217;s fed up with what&#8217;s happening? Where the hell is our outrage? We should be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Remember Lee Iacocca, the man who rescued Chrysler Corporation from its death throes?  He&#8217;s now 82 years old and has a new book, &#8216;Where Have All The Leaders  Gone?&#8217;.</p>
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Lee Iacocca Says:   &#8216;Am I the only guy in this country who&#8217;s fed up with what&#8217;s happening? Where the hell is our outrage? We should be screaming bloody murder! We&#8217;ve got a gang of clueless bozos steering our ship of state right over a cliff, we&#8217;ve got corporate gangsters stealing us blind, and we can&#8217;t even clean up after a hurricane much less build a hybrid car. But instead of getting mad, everyone sits around and nods their heads when the politicians say, &#8216;Stay the course.&#8217;</p>
<p>Stay the course? You&#8217;ve got to be kidding. This is  America , not the damned, &#8216;Titanic&#8217;. I&#8217;ll give you a sound bite: &#8216;Throw all the bums out!&#8217;</p>
<p>You might think I&#8217;m getting senile, that I&#8217;ve gone off my rocker, and maybe I have. But someone has to speak up.  I hardly recognize this country anymore. The most famous business leaders are not the innovators but the guys in handcuffs. While we&#8217;re fiddling in Iraq , the Middle East is burning and nobody seems to know what to do. And the press is waving &#8216;pom-poms&#8217; instead of asking hard questions. That&#8217;s not the promise of the &#8216; America &#8216; my parents and yours traveled across the ocean for. I&#8217;ve had enough. How about you?</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll go a step further. You can&#8217;t call yourself a patriot if you&#8217;re not outraged. This is a fight I&#8217;m ready and willing to have. The Biggest &#8216;C&#8217; is Crisis ! (Iacocca elaborates on nine C&#8217;s of leadership, with crisis being the first.)</p>
<p>Leaders are made, not born. Leadership is forged in times of crisis. It&#8217;s easy to sit there with your feet up on the desk and talk theory. Or send someone else&#8217;s kids off to war when you&#8217;ve never seen a battlefield yourself.  It&#8217;s another thing to lead when your world comes tumbling down.</p>
<p>On September 11, 2001 , we needed a  strong leader more than any other time in our history. We needed a steady hand to guide us out of the ashes. A hell of a mess, so here&#8217;s where we stand. We&#8217;re immersed in a bloody war with no plan for winning and no plan for leaving.</p>
<p>We&#8217;re running the biggest deficit in the history of the country. We&#8217;re losing the manufacturing edge to  Asia , while our once-great companies are getting slaughtered by health care costs. Gas prices are skyrocketing, and nobody in power has a coherent energy policy. Our schools are in trouble. Our borders are like sieves.</p>
<p>The middle class is being squeezed every which way. These are times that cry out for leadership.<br />
But when you look around, you&#8217;ve got to ask: &#8216;Where  have all the leaders gone?&#8217; Where are the curious, creative communicators?  Where are the people of character, courage, conviction, omnipotence, and common sense? I may be a sucker for alliteration, but I think you get the point.</p>
<p>Name me a leader who has a better idea for homeland security than making us take off our shoes in airports and throw away our shampoo? We&#8217;ve spent billions of dollars building a huge new bureaucracy, and all we know how to do is react to things that have already happened.</p>
<p>Name me one leader who emerged from the crisis of Hurricane Katrina. Congress has yet to spend a single day evaluating the response to the hurricane or demanding accountability for the decisions that were made in the crucial hours after the storm.</p>
<p>Everyone&#8217;s hunkering down,fingers crossed, hoping it doesn&#8217;t happen again. Now, that&#8217;s just crazy. Storms happen. Deal with it. Make a plan. Figure out what you&#8217;re going to do the next time.</p>
<p>Name me an industry leader who is thinking creatively about how we can restore our competitive edge in manufacturing. Who would have believed that there could ever be a time when &#8216;The Big Three&#8217; referred to Japanese car companies? How did this happen, and more important, what are we going to do about it?</p>
<p>Name me a government leader who can articulate a plan for paying down the debt, or solving the energy crisis, or managing the health care problem. The silence is deafening. But these are the crises that are eating away at our country and milking the middle class dry.</p>
<p>I have news for the gang in Congress. We didn&#8217;t elect you to sit on your asses and do nothing and remain silent while our democracy is being hijacked and our greatness is being replaced with mediocrity. What  is everybody so afraid of? That some bonehead on CNN will call them a name? Give me a break. Why don&#8217;t you guys show some spine for a change?</p>
<p>Had Enough? Hey, I&#8217;m not trying to be the voice of gloom and doom here. I&#8217;m trying to light a fire. I&#8217;m speaking out because I have hope &#8211; I believe in  America. In my lifetime, I&#8217;ve had the privilege of living through some of  America&#8217;s greatest moments. I&#8217;ve also experienced some of our worst crises: The &#8216;Great Depression,&#8217; &#8216;World War II,&#8217; the &#8216;Korean War,&#8217; the &#8216;Kennedy Assassination,&#8217; the &#8216;Vietnam War,&#8217; the 1970&#8242;s oil crisis, and the struggles of recent years culminating with 9/11.</p>
<p>If I&#8217;ve learned one thing, it&#8217;s this: &#8216;You don&#8217;t get anywhere by standing on the sidelines waiting for somebody else to take action. Whether it&#8217;s building a better car or building a better future for our children, we all have a role to play. That&#8217;s the challenge I&#8217;m raising in this book. It&#8217;s a &#8220;Call to Action&#8221; for people who,like me, believe in  America&#8217;. It&#8217;s not too late, but it&#8217;s getting pretty close. So let&#8217;s shake off the crap and go to work. Let&#8217;s tell &#8216;em all we&#8217;ve had &#8216;enough.&#8217;</p>
<p>Make your own contribution by sending this to everyone you know and care about. It&#8217;s our country, folks, and it&#8217;s our future. Our future is at stake!!</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 06:01:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The following was written by Ben Stein and recited by him on CBS Sunday Morning Commentary. My confession: I am a Jew, and every single one of my ancestors was Jewish. And it does not bother me even a little bit when people call those beautiful lit up, bejeweled trees, Christmas trees. I don&#8217;t feel [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="font-size: large;"><em><strong>The following was written by Ben Stein and recited by him on CBS Sunday  Morning  Commentary.</strong></em></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ccffcc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>My confession:</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ccffcc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>I am a Jew, and every single one of my ancestors was Jewish.  And it does not bother me even a little bit when people call those beautiful lit up, bejeweled trees, Christmas trees.  I don&#8217;t feel threatened.  I don&#8217;t feel discriminated against. That&#8217;s what they are, Christmas trees.</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ccffcc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>It doesn&#8217;t bother me a bit when people say, &#8216;Merry Christmas&#8217; to me.  I don&#8217;t think they are slighting me or getting ready to put me in a ghetto.  In fact, I kind of like it.  It shows that we are all brothers and sisters celebrating this happy time of year. It doesn&#8217;t bother me at all that there is a manger scene on display at a key intersection near my beach house in  Malibu .  If people want a creche, it&#8217;s just as fine with me as is the Menorah a few hundred yards away.</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ccffcc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>I don&#8217;t like getting pushed around for being a Jew, and I don&#8217;t think Christians like getting pushed around for being Christians.  I think people who believe in God are sick and tired of getting pushed around, period.  I have no idea where the concept came from, that  America is an explicitly atheist country.  I can&#8217;t find it in the Constitution and I don&#8217;t like it being shoved down my throat.</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ccffcc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>Or maybe I can put it another way: where did the idea come from that we should worship celebrities and we aren&#8217;t allowed to worship God as we understand Him?  I guess that&#8217;s a sign that I&#8217;m getting old, too.  But there are a lot of us who are wondering where these celebrities came from and where the  America we knew went to.</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ccffcc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>In light of the many jokes we send to one another for a laugh, this is a little different:  This is not intended to be a joke; it&#8217;s not funny, it&#8217;s intended to get you thinking.</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ccffcc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>Billy Graham&#8217;s daughter was interviewed on the Early Show and Jane Clayson asked her &#8216;How could God let something like this happen?&#8217; (regarding Hurricane Katrina)..  Anne Graham gave an extremely profound and insightful response.  She said, &#8216;I believe God is deeply saddened by this, just as we are, but for years we&#8217;ve been telling God to get out of our schools, to get out of our government and to get out of our lives.  And being the gentleman He is, I believe He has calmly backed out.  How can we expect God to give us His blessing and His protection if we demand He leave us alone?&#8217;</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ccffcc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>In light of recent events&#8230; terrorists attack, school shootings, etc.  I think it started when Madeleine Murray O&#8217;Hare (she was murdered, her body found a few years ago) complained she didn&#8217;t want prayer in our schools, and we said OK.  Then someone said you better not read the Bible in school.  The Bible says thou shalt not kill; thou shalt not steal, and love your neighbor as yourself.  And we said OK.</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ccffcc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>Then Dr. Benjamin Spock said we shouldn&#8217;t spank our children when they misbehave, because their little personalities would be warped and we might damage their self-esteem (Dr. Spock&#8217;s son committed suicide).  We said an expert should know what he&#8217;s talking about.  And we said okay.</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ccffcc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>Now we&#8217;re asking ourselves why our children have no conscience, why they don&#8217;t know right from wrong, and why it doesn&#8217;t bother them to kill strangers, their classmates, and themselves.</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #00ffff;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #ccffcc;">Probably, if we think about it long and hard enough, we can figure it out.  I think it has a great deal to do with</span> <span style="color: #ff6600;">&#8216;WE REAP WHAT WE SOW.&#8217;</span></strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ccffcc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>Funny how simple it is for people to trash God and then wonder why the world&#8217;s going to hell.  Funny how we believe what the newspapers say, but question what the Bible says.  Funny how you can send &#8216;jokes&#8217; through e-mail and they spread like wildfire, but when you start sending messages regarding the Lord, people think twice about sharing.  Funny how lewd, crude, vulgar and obscene articles pass freely through cyber space, but public discussion of God is suppressed in the school and workplace.</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;"><span style="font-size: large;"><em><strong>Are you laughing yet?</strong></em></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ccffcc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><em><strong>Funny how when you forward this message, you will not send it to many on your address list because you&#8217;re not sure what they believe, or what they will think of you for sending it.</strong></em></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ccffcc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><em><strong>Funny how we can be more worried about what other people think of us than what God thinks of us.</strong></em></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ccffcc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><em><strong>Pass it on if you think it has merit.</strong></em></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ccffcc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><em><strong>If not, then just discard it&#8230; no one will know you did.  But, if you discard this thought process, don&#8217;t sit back and complain about what bad shape the world is in.</strong></em></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ccffcc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><em><strong><br />
My Best Regards,  Honestly and respectfully,</strong></em></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ccffcc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><em><strong>Ben Stein</strong></em></span></span></p>
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